# Real Estate and the matter - how do I know that anything is possible - Natalie Yerushalmi - Post…
# Real Estate and the matter - how do I know that anything is possible - Natalie Yerushalmi - Post 4
How do I know anything is possible
Hi friends
I'm already getting used to sitting here quietly at night and writing to you.
My days are busier than ever, many of you are writing to me following the posts, asking questions, asking for advice, support, encouragement, collaborations, you are expanding my heart. Promises to answer and get back to you all. I am deeply thankful that you are helping me fulfill my destiny ❤️
So how do I know that anything is possible and how anything that seems inconceivable can be conceptualized and accessible? Tell a story….
When I was a kid and scared of something or when I thought I needed to succeed at something and I was terribly apprehensive, I had a little trick I used (obviously I will share….)
Do you remember that I excelled in everything I did right? I do not write this out of arrogance, I write so that you understand that many times there is no connection between what you see outside and what happens inside and pay attention to your outstanding children On the outside they seem to be most confident in themselves but inside…. Lack of self-worth, fear of failure that will break the image, fear of disappointment and a heavy burden of having to succeed otherwise will find that I am not really worth as everyone thinks, because who I am and what I am worth if I do not succeed and excel in everything. Well since this is not a treatment group, we will not open it at this time.
So that heavy burden forced me to develop a little trick that helped me when I was afraid of something (especially to fail or ruin my image) and the trick was to find someone who did what I was afraid of, look at him and convince myself that if he can too I can because he / she has nothing Mine is missing.
Sounds complicated? Definately not. Here's a really simple and technical example, going to an amusement park, convincing me to get on the roller coaster or another scary facility and I do not want to break the image, so I examine who is in front of me or who has just got off the train and ask myself, there is something in you ? If he can and nothing has happened to him, so can you.
Sounds simplistic but works, how does this relate to real estate?
When I started my studies, I had no idea about real estate and I had cannons in front of me that do and know and have assets and investors, etc. So between all the hustle and bustle, this little girl inside popped up from time to time and said, 'What's up with you? How do you think you will succeed in this? How will you ever get to where they are? Everything seemed big and inconceivable and then the same trick, I chose one of the guns or some of them and convinced myself that if they could I could too.
After all, there are so many successful people and they come from different backgrounds, some came from a much more difficult and impossible background than mine so how did it become possible for them? Do not tell yourself that you can not, it is just a limiting belief. If he can you can too and that's it.
So after this long introduction, I'll tell you a story from the real estate field, because that's why we came together, so that you can understand that you can too.
An act that was so was, remember my stories about the wonders of reconciliation? (I swear to you that if Zuckerberg does not call me tomorrow and begs me to pay royalties I will move to Tiktok).
Remember I joined real estate groups in Kansas? So one of the big groups is run by the owners of a large, successful and very well-known real estate company in the area. I really enjoyed reading the posts and essays made there and mostly I looked with admiration at the owners of the group who were also very nice and gave value and were also very successful in real estate. My partner also quoted quite a bit of the owner of the same group called Nathan and admired him. I always "joked" with him that in the end we will be bigger than them (because if they can… ..).
About three months ago, the same Nathan and his lovely partner approached us and said they were following our posts and seeing what we were doing in Texas and that they really liked it and asked if we would be willing to cooperate. Tysan (that partner of mine from the previous post) and I almost choked with astonishment. So we played it hard to get (Staaaam really not, we almost fell at their feet but played the game).
In the meantime, we have opened two companies together, started 3 joint projects and in the next two months we will start 2 multi-family construction projects in partnership with them. Do you believe? Are we the little fishermen who started yesterday?
And another little one…. When I first started my first flip in Kansas, I made connections with a lot of people, contractors, developers, realtors, so they taught us.
One of them who was among the nicest was always happy to help me. I also looked at him with admiration because he was a successful entrepreneur / contractor who did a lot of flips. I did not really get to work with him but he always tried to help. About a month ago he contacted us and asked if we would agree to cooperate with him in Texas and that he would be happy to invest with us.
I told you that anything is possible and I have more and more proof. The abundance is endless and the opportunities are just waiting.
So when will you adopt this trick? Will you tell me? Do you do that too sometimes?
Have you seen the movie "The Secret" or read the book?
If not yet, I highly recommend doing both. Some people think he's simplistic, I'm not arguing, I really enjoyed it but if you take the essence of what he's trying to convey and embrace it, promise you miracles and wonders, listen it works and it's related to everything we talked about here and the immortal sentence I already mentioned of Henry Ford / Robert Shemin
WHATEVER YOU THINK YOU ARE RIGHT
Because really everything is in our head, the distance between a successful real estate developer and someone who is stuck in a frustrated mouse race is a distance of thought (well, mind you, here I said it).
See you tomorrow at Foss before last. If there are things you really want me to write about, write me in the comments and I will try to incorporate.
shaming
Natalie
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